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Facing source of anxiety can help banish fears By
Justin McIntosh Adults
often look back at their teen years as the good old days,
but life as a teen-ager can also be filled with a lot of anxiety. Anxiety
can rear its head in many ways, but there are two main factors which
contribute to anxiety in a teens life environmental and
dispositional. Some
teens, because of their disposition, are more likely to react to certain
situations with anxiety, said Kathryn Bobbitt, clinical psychologist
with Marietta Health Care Physicians Inc. Typically,
that teen will have very high standards, (is) highly self-critical and
rather a perfectionist, Bobbitt said. The
majority of teens, however, experience anxiety because of environmental
factors, most of which involve the continual changes teen-agers experience
as they enter adulthood. These
can include relationships becoming more serious, a struggle to become
more independent as a person and the pressure to succeed at school and
in sports. Its
a time in their lives where there are a lot of things to be anxious
about, said Dave Zlatkind, guidance counselor at Warren High School.
For
eighth-graders coming into high school, its an anxiety-ridden
time. Kelly
Gray, 15, a sophomore at Marietta High School, said last year at this
time the thought of going to high school and having to make new friends
was particularly stressful. But
it was her participation last year in the schools show choir and
having to balance homework and other activities that was the hardest
on her. Its
really stressful balancing, Gray said. Theres not
enough time. One
of the first symptoms is avoidance. Anxiety is such a terribly uncomfortable
feeling, Bobbitt said. It can be terribly limiting if their
solution is to avoid situations like parties or school events. The
other common symptom is to have a lot of complaints of physical problems.
Bobbitt said some teens may complain of shortness of breath, a racing
heart or upset stomach when feeling anxious. Last
school year, Zlatkind helped a student who had test anxiety. He
found the student was having trouble staying relaxed before a test,
and it prevented her from scoring well. I
used a technique called biofeedback, where people who are anxious with
something tend to lose control with breathing, Zlatkind said.
If you control your breathing it will slow your heart rate. Zlatkind
said after some work, the student was able to stay relaxed during her
tests and did much better. For
Kasey Gray, 17, a senior at Marietta High (Kellys brother), just
having fun and playing soccer helps him relax. I
try to have as much fun as I can, Kasey Gray said. In
addition, Zlatkind and Bobbitt both agreed it can be especially helpful
for teens to find someone safe they can talk to when they are feeling
anxious. Sometimes,
though, the best way to cope with anxiety is to take small steps to
face your anxiety. I
think the only way to really reduce anxiety is to, at some point, actually
perform. You cant live in the real world and avoid stressful situations.
Zlatkind said. You have to learn to deal with them. Bobbitt
agreed. Stress is a part of life, and challenges are a part of life. One of the most important things to teach children is to be confident enough to take on challenges, Bobbitt said. |
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